Introduction

The relationship between patient and therapist is an important part of both mental and physical health. Having a supportive, understanding relationship with a therapist can be essential to helping someone heal and grow. In some cases, a therapist may even become a friend outside of the clinical environment – but its important to remember that, ultimately, the therapists primary responsibility is professional and the boundaries between friendship and medical care must not be crossed.

What is Therapeutic Boundary Crossing?

Therapist boundary crossing (or boundary blurring) occurs when the boundaries between a therapist and their patient are blurred, either by the therapist or patient. This can involve anything from discussing personal matters outside of the therapeutic session, to gifting, to touching. While these actions can sometimes be appropriate (for instance, gentle physical touch can be used in certain therapies such as massage therapy) its important for both the patient and therapist to be aware of the professional boundaries – even if those boundaries are sometimes blurred.

Why do Boundaries Exist?

Boundaries are essential for the health of both the therapist-patient relationship and the patients health overall. Boundaries set limits and define the relationship, fostering a safe environment that, while allowing a genuine connection, also encourages an understanding of appropriate behavior.

Overstepping or blurring these boundaries can put the patient at risk and diminish the therapeutic trust. It can also lead to confusion and anxiety as to whats acceptable and whats not, which can impede the therapists ability to help the patient.

The Danger of too Much ‘Friendship

Its important to bear in mind, too, that a therapist may start out coming off as a friend before realizing that their role is to be a clinical professional. This can be detrimental to both the therapist relationship as well as the clinical progress of the patient.

At first, a patient may feel comforted by what they perceive as a genuine friendship, but this is not healthy for either the therapist or the patient – a relationship of trust and respect is important, but too much ‘friendship can lead to an unprofessional atmosphere and a decrease in patient safety.

Conclusion

Its important to maintain professional boundaries with a therapist, even when those boundaries become blurry. While some relationships with a therapist may become friendly, its important to always remember that the primary responsibility of the therapist is to provide professional care and that boundaries must not be crossed. Keeping these boundaries in check will promote not only better healing and understanding, but also a healthier and more successful therapeutic relationship.

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